Sunday, September 26

Poker Night at the Kabuki Rodeo

I am starting a monthly poker night at my house. It will be on the first Friday of each month, starting with this coming Friday. I sent out an e-mail inviting a bunch of people, so hopefully it will be a success. For admission, I told them to bring either an occasional bottle of liquor as things start running low, or a tall, cute, single man for me. :) Now, I am sure that most everyone will bring liquor, unfortunately, but wouldn't it be fun for me if they all choose to bring a nice young man for me instead. I'll keep you posted if anything good comes of this!

Saturday, September 25

Check out Love Spell

I am ashamed to admit that it has been almost a month since I updated my other blog. But, never fear--it is updated! Since I made you wait so long for it, I even posted the story about Stripper Boy. Enjoy!

Tuesday, September 21

Sniff, sniff

It looks like Christina is going to be moving to Baltimore. :( I wish her the best of luck, but I am going to miss her. It's a shame--we have lived within five or six miles of each other for a few years now, but didn't really start hanging out until recently. All these years we could have been going out, having fun, but we just didn't. And now she is going to leave me. Sniff, sniff.

We are both single, and it has been fun having a single friend again. Thankfully, my married friends aren't into going out and picking up men. But Christina and I had fun. She and I made a good team out at bars also. I am 6'0" and she is 6'1", so guys didn't have a choice but to notice us. :) There is a picture of us here. And she is in some of the murder mystery pictures. Oh, I have more pictures from the party--I just have to get around to getting them posted. Hopefully that will be done in a couple of days.

Anyways, that is why I am lonely right now. Her finding a better job though has spurred me on to look again. Right now I have four federal postings in front of me and I will be working frantically to get my resume and supporting documents out to all of them before their closing dates. Wish me luck!

Monday, September 20

This is really funny!

Following a link from oncee's page, I found this page. Definitely worth a read!

Thursday, September 16

A New Approach

I have been thinking quite a bit about this thing with Eric and I have come to the conclusion that his being away may just be the best possible start to a healthy relationship. Give me a chance to explain--I am sure you are think I have lost my mind right now.

In this day and time, most relationships move really, really fast. One prime example of this is the "third date rule." Are you really going to tell me that, if you have just met someone, that three dates is long enough to decide if you want to sleep with this person? Three dates can happen within a week of meeting someone! Nowadays the emotional aspect of a relationship, getting to know the person you are with, has taken a backseat to the physical aspect. It happens far too often that someone is in a "relationship" for a few months, only to realize one day that they know nothing about the person they are dating. Granted, you know their name, what they do for a living, maybe even their favorite foods and movies, but do you really know them? Do you know their goals or dreams, what they want out of life, if they want a family--things like that? People no longer talk and get to know one another. Life is so busy that everyone is constantly doing something. And often what you are doing, especially on dates, is an activity that doesn't involve talking, such as watching movies.

Anyways, after all that rambling, I will get to my point. For at least the next five months, all Eric and I can do is talk. We will be forced to get to know one another on a deeper basis, not just pure physical attraction. And, if we decide to try dating, we will be one step ahead of most beginning couples.

I am not naive enough to think that in five months time I will know all there is to know about this guy. I am not sure that you can ever really know everything about someone, even after a lifetime together. I just think that we will have a better foundation for a healthy relationship, if we decided to pursue one. Who knows though, as we get to know one another, we may find that we only want to be friends, nothing more. Only time will tell.


Tuesday, September 14

Busy, busy, busy...

What a crazy week! I am normally on the road two days a week tops. I spent yesterday in Charleston and today in Summersville, and tomorrow and Thursday I go back to Charleston and Clarksburg, respectively. Already I have put in twenty hours the past two days. So, now you can see why my mood is frazzled!

The worst thing about this week is that I did it to myself. I had to borrow a special pump from the lab for the type sampling I am doing. So, rather than keep borrowing it, I scheduled everything for this week. At least I will have all day off on Friday! Plus, I will get some comp time. But I am already worn out and definitely not looking forward to going to Clarksburg on Thursday, especially if Ivan decides to hit then. I hate having to drive in the rain. :(

Anyways, the reason for telling you all of this is to let you know that the blog posts may be few and far between this week, just depending on time. Wish me luck with getting caught up soon!

Monday, September 13

It's back!!!!

Look to the sidebar and you will see that I have my chatterbox back! Yay! Time to start leaving me messages again!

For anyone that is wondering, no, I never figured out what I did. But, I was able to get the HTML code again, so I just redid the box. :)


Sunday, September 12

Continuation of I have no luck...

Eric called. Yay!!! We went out tonight and I had a really great time with him. We went to dinner and then back to his place for a drink. We seem to have a lot in common and the conversation flowed so easily. I really think he is someone that I could like once I get to know him. I really hated having to leave, but, he is leaving the country tomorrow, so I figured he might want to get some sleep.

It shocked me how sad I got when I was saying goodbye. It isn't that I have already fallen for this guy or anything like that--I have only known him for three days. It was that I was saying goodbye to a guy who is headed back to war; one that nobody really knows why we are fighting. I don't know how people can ever say goodbye to loved ones when they are leaving for war. It really broke my heart to say bye to a guy I barely know, so I am not so sure I could make it through saying goodbye to someone that I loved.

Anyways, I guess I had a little luck; the guy actually called. But that made it suck even more that he is leaving now. I now know that this is someone I could really like, and the next chance I will get to see him is at least five months away--and that is if he gets to come home when he is supposed to. How is that for a start to a happy relationship? Oh well, I will make it.


Saturday, September 11

I have no luck!

I just got home from a wonderful evening! Christina and I went to The Empty Glass to celebrate her birthday, and she brought a friend along named Eric. He was nice, good looking, funny, charming, SINGLE--sounds like a real catch, right? We danced all evening together and talked when we could--we really clicked. We saw a really good live band, Freekbass, who we both really liked. We also saw another band, Noizbox, but only their last song because we got there too late. Here's the problem and why I feel I have no luck: He leaves Monday to return to Iraq until at least February; he was home on 15 days leave. Doesn't that suck???? I finally meet a guy that really piqued my interest, and he is leaving the country. Usually they at least wait until after the first date before they flee! ;)

We said we will keep in touch by e-mail, so who knows. But it still sucks BIG TIME! So, a new listing of my list of qualities I am looking for in a man--one that isn't leaving the country in the next few days! :)

Friday, September 10

Pictures!

I have the first of the pics from the Murder Mystery Party. There were too many to post individually on here, so click here to see the album. As I get more I will post them also!

Wednesday, September 8

Nakedness on Labor Day!

Labor Day

I mentioned before that I had a wonderful Labor Day also. I went up to Charleston for the Reinvesting in America Rally. It was such a great day! First thing, I ran into a friend of my dad’s who gave me a “Friends of Labor” pass. This got me in and out of the Charleston House for the day and into hospitality rooms where I was able to get free food and drinks. My sister had a room on the eighth floor, riverside of the hotel, overlooking all of the festivities. Since it ended up being such a warm day out, having access to the hotel with a place to crash for a while was a great asset. Plus, the free food and booze didn’t hurt. :)

There was a press conference at 2:00 that I sat in on, where I got to hear performers/speakers of the day talk for a bit and then there was a little Q & A session. Afterwards, they all hung out for a while, meeting and talking with us. I got to speak to the Indigo Girls, but didn’t have a camera, so no picture. But then I grabbed my sister’s digital camera and had pictures taken with Willie Nelson and Danny Glover. It was so neat getting to meet both of them! Later, I ran into Rev. Jesse Jackson in the hotel lobby and had mine and Izzy’s picture taken with him. There is a funny story that goes along with that.

Of course, when I walk up with Izzy in my arms, Jesse Jackson took him to be my son. I didn’t see any need to correct him. Anyways, we get together for the picture, and Izzy decides this would be a good time to pull my shirt off me. So he started grabbing at the V-neckline, tugging and pulling as hard as he could. At this point, Jesse Jackson started laughing and saying, “No, no son, don’t strip your mommy,” and other things along those lines. I could have died at that moment and been perfectly happy. I was so embarrassed!!! Here is a very important political figure, as well as a reverend, and he has now seen my boobs. I eventually recovered from the embarrassment and enjoyed the rest of my day, but I will never be able to see or hear Jesse Jackson again without turning a little pink. Or bright red is more likely. :) Anyways, that is where the nakedness on Labor Day come from.

I kept running into Danny Glover all day! It was so funny, every time I would turn a corner, there he was. I actually ran into him a couple of times, as in literally hitting him. He was cool about it though and just laughed it off. There were so many people there that it was hard to not keep running into others. He walked around like an average person, no security or bodyguards. Which is probably a good thing, or otherwise I may have been arrested as a stalker as many times as I ran into him. :)

The rest of the day was great also. We would go outside for a while and mingle with all the people, then retreat to the room to cool off and have a couple drinks. We had the best seat for the fireworks. They were put off directly across from our hotel room, and the view was amazing.

I could go on and on, but I don’t want to ramble. Until later…..bye!

Tuesday, September 7

You have got to be kidding me!?!?!?!

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Murder and Mayhem at the Kabuki Rodeo

The murder mystery party was a success! We ended up with twelve people. The costumes were great and I am sure my neighbors are still wondering what happened at my house that evening. Those in attendance were: Barnaby Johnson (Ken), the Ringmaster and owner of Big Johnson’s Circus; Madame Mama (Christina), his wife and the fortune teller; Promethia (Leslie), the Fire Breather; Kay-Boom (Nikki), the Human Cannonball; Rapier Montana (Sean), the Sword Swallower; Vigor Deathe (Shawn), the Tattooed Man; Klaus Von Sturgin (Joe), the Lion Tamer; Serpentina (Myself), the Medusa; Chandelier Saint John (Tricia), the Trapeze Artist; Angus Agony (Chris), the Geek; Frank (Debbie), the Bearded Lady; Captain Strongarm McCoy (Kevin), the strongman; and the unnamed, but very important detective (Ken also). Those not attending, but important to the plot anyways, were: Mr. Puddles, the dog-boy; Floppy, the clown of an undetermined gender; and Mel Gibson.

The evening started with a delicious dinner with tons of food—fried chicken, mashed potatoes, baked beans, salad, rolls, and a stuffed beef dish that Shawn cooked up. I have said it before—that boy should be a chef. We all introduced ourselves, got into character, and dinner began. It turns out that Barnaby was going to sell the circus to Mel Gibson. By the end of the meal, after our bleeding heart dessert (another Shawn creation—peach jello with red corn syrup “blood” in the middle), the murder occurred. Barnaby started coughing and gagging, then blood came pouring out of his mouth. He got up and took a few steps before collapsing into the kitchen floor and taking his last breath. His wife, Madame Mama collapsed onto the floor next to him, distraught at the death of her husband. She recovered and was helped into the living room. At this point all of the guests joined her and we began the process of deciphering the mystery.

The body was removed and the detective, who looked an awful lot like the recently deceased Barnaby, came onto the scene. He collected clues and evidence and questioned some of the guests. Among the clues were the fact that Barnaby was anything but faithful to his wife, having affairs with many of the freaks, including Serpentina and Frank. Floppy the clown had killed 27 of his/her brother clowns. Chandelier, who you only saw after extensive shaving and waxing, was actually the sister to Mr. Puddles, and both were the children of Barnaby and Madame Mama. Angus was actually Pierce Montana, Siamese brother of Rapier Montana, who was separated from his brother in an accident and then disappeared. And there were many, many other clues, but those are the ones that I can remember right off.

As the clues were collected, things started getting a little, ummm, shall we say, interesting? The drinks had been flowing freely since the beginning of the party, even beforehand for some of us, so we were all starting to get pretty happy by that point in time. Serpentina and Promethia both were pegged as whores and drunks by the other performers, so we played the parts up. We were coming on to everyone, and at some point the detective was partially stripped by us and a few others. Attention spans were short, so we read off the rest of the clues fairly quickly, and people took their guesses about the murderer. I ended up being the only character with multiple people thinking that I was the murderer. I knew I wasn't, but I played it to make everyone think I was. :) I am not sure if anyone actually got it right. Anywho, eventually it was solved. I don't really remember all the details--something about Madame Mama being the murderer, and Mel Gibson actually being the one who died. I have to check on that yet.

I think the mystery was enjoyed by everyone in attendance. Shawn did a great job with writing it. I kind of wish that not so many drinks had been had before the mystery was solved though. Things might have gone a bit better while trying to solve it. But, we all had a great time and that was the point of the evening anyways.

The party continued well into the wee hours of the morning. We lost Tricia and Joe at about midnight, but everyone else ended up staying the night at my place. Officially, the party ended at five in the morning when we finally crashed. We were up and about, busy with clean up by 9:00. No, I don’t know why we all got back up so quickly; we just woke up. Ken went out and picked up breakfast for everyone, while those of us left at the house tried to put it back in order. It took until 3:00 pm to get it back to normal, but it finally did get there.

That evening most of us went to Ken’s house for a cookout with his family. His dad really knows how to work a grill! We had steaks, bratwurst, stuffed peppers, grilled veggies, garlic bread, croissants, and baked beans. Everything was delicious. We were hanging out after dinner trying to decide what to get into that evening, and it was decided that we would head back to my house to play some cards. It was a much calmer evening than the night before, with things wrapping up about midnight. I think we were all still trying to recover, because very few drinks other than straight Pepsi or water were had.

Unfortunately though, Monday morning meant that everyone had to travel back to their own homes. It was great getting to see everyone and we had a wonderful weekend together. Can’t wait for Ren-fest in a month or so to see them all again!!!

On a side note—I will post some pics as soon as I get some. I couldn’t find my camera, so I am depending on everyone else to share the pics they got! Also, I had a wonderful Labor day, but I will post about it later, hopefully with pics from it too. Until then, have a great day!

Wednesday, September 1

Long week

I am sorry I haven't updated in a few days. To put it nicely, I feel like crap. There is something messed up with my head (no, not mentally) and I can't stand up or move quickly without getting dizzy. It has gotten to the point now that I can't really even focus on stuff. So, I think I am finally going to give in and go to the doctor tomorrow, unless I miraculously wake up feeling better.

I talked online with my guy a couple of days ago. It was the strangest discussion. I was saying things to make it very obvious that I am interested in seeing more of him, and he didn't pick up on any of it. When we were saying goodbye I said, "I hope I didn't completely freak you out tonight." Oh, to catch you up to speed, he has severe commitment anxiety, so I have avoided THE TALK with him for fear of scaring him away. That is why I have dropped so many not-so-subtle hints that I am interested in more. So, when I said that, he was completely confused and couldn't figure out what would have freaked him out. I tried to just drop it and end things for the evening, but he wouldn't hear of it. So, I finally just put it bluntly to him that I am interested and would like to see him on a more regular basis. I did make sure to add that I wasn't asking for exclusivity yet, just something more often than a date every six months. He was surprisingly cool with everything and said that he would like that and that we'd plan something soon. But then he had to add, "No strings attached." He said he was kidding, but I don't believe him. He wants to have all the perks of a relationship without actually having any sort of a real relationship. I am not wanting a commitment immediately myself, just more frequent dates, so that is not what bothered me. More than anything I would like to spend some more time with him to see if he is someone I would like to have a relationship with. But, for him to say, "Yeah, let's hang out, no strings attached," was a little insulting to me. I don't know what I will do now if he does actually try to get together again.

Why can't I just meet a normal guy, without commitment hang-ups, and who actually WILL call again? Dating is so frustrating!!!